Gavin did reasonably well on the drive to Pittsburgh. At least not any worse than previous long car trips. He slept okay the first night, not as well as he had been sleeping at home, but not so bad it wasn't manageable. Unfortunately, it was all down hill from there. He was a bit more whiney Christmas Eve, but seemed to do ok after he napped a little more. We decided that since he had taken a second nap and woken up a bit later than normal, we would attempt staying a little later at the annual Christmas Eve party. It started at 6, so we were hoping he would do well enough to not have to leave at 7 to get him into bed by his normal 7:30 bedtime.
The party was wonderful and it was great to see everyone. Unfortunately, Gavin didn't seem to feel that way. He had a meltdown as soon as we stepped in the door and I don't think he ever really recovered because he basically ignored everyone all night (even all the kids) and was either off doing his own thing (which he would abandon if anyone came over to him) or was demanding to be carried around by Scott or myself. At that point, we probably should have just left at 7, but we tried to stick it out a bit longer. We ate (Gavin refused to eat anything... ugh) and tried to make the best of it but had to abandon the party a little earlier than we wanted. By the time we got out the door and made it back to Scott's dad's house, it was clear that it was going to be a long night. I got him into bed as quickly as I could (which took a bit longer than I would have liked because we had to replace the batteries in his glow worm, what great timing for those to die!) and hoped for the best. I was exhausted by that point, so I got ready for bed, put Muppet Christmas Carol on and fell asleep pretty early. That didn't seem to matter since Gavin woke up fairly early and refused to go back to sleep, so I brought him to bed with me, which there was not enough room for. He tossed and turned a lot and was generally unhappy the rest of the night. He then decided that getting up early would be awesome. Not so much.
It was a rough morning because he was crabby from not sleeping. I did what I could to distract him but it was pretty useless. He was just going to be miserable until naptime no matter what I did. He took a good nap and was ok the rest of the afternoon. We headed over to Lori's for a few hours to have Christmas dinner and spend some time together. Gavin did much better than the previous night. He was actually interested in Tyler and Jake and playing. He had a lot of fun running around with them. It was nice to see someone closer to the "real" Gavin. We headed home to get Gavin in bed at 7:30 and hoped that maybe tonight would be better since he had been more "normal" that afternoon. Nope, another rough night. Just as bad, if not worse. A lot of tossing and turning and general crappy sleep. Awesome.
He woke up early again Monday (ugh!) and was crabby all morning. At this point, Scott and I are trying to decide what to do. We had wanted and planned to visit some people Monday and Tuesday because we were going to head home Wednesday, but Gavin was so miserable, it was making it really hard on us. He wasn't sleeping and he wasn't eating so he was constantly whining (something very out of character for Gavin, unless he is teething). After Gavin took a good nap, he was ok so we decided to try and stick it out and go to visit some family.
We had a lot of fun and Gavin enjoyed their dog and running around somewhere new for a little bit. After that, both Gavin and I were done so we headed home for the evening. Scott went out a little later to visit a friend because Gavin and I were not up for going as well.
Even though Gavin slept worse (I thought that wouldn't be possible), I tried to remind myself we only had one more day and we really wanted to visit some more people since we only see most of them once (sometimes twice if we are lucky) a year. Gavin's mood improved a bit after his nap so we packed up and headed out. He did a little better with the other kids this time and was more willing to run around and play, so that was nice.
Bed time was the same, terrible sleep and Wednesday morning was the same crabby kid, mixed in with all the last minute packing that I couldn't do the night before. Awesome.
Our drive back was pretty miserable. Gavin hardly slept, was whining almost the whole way home and nothing made him happy. He wanted nothing to do with movies/shows, snacks, drinks, toys, music, nothing! It was a really long drive and we were all miserable and generally unhappy by the time we got home.
Gavin's mood quickly improved when we got home. He was seemingly very happy to be home and running around. This was the happiest I had seen him in almost a week! I have no idea if it was because he was happy to be out of the car or happy to be home, but it was such a nice change from the whining of the last few days!
I was hopeful that maybe just being home in his bed, in his room and with all the normal things we do, he would sleep better. Not so much. Although he did seem to sleep a little better, he was still up a lot more than normal and woke up for the day earlier than normal because of that. The only thing that makes that a bit more manageable is that he wasn't crabby all day! Wahoo! I can deal with and work on his night sleeping if he is at least his normal happy self during the day!
Although Gavin's sleeping and mood were awful, it was great to see everyone and I am happy we made the trip. Gavin has never traveled well because he hates long car rides but traveling has never impacted his mood so that was a bit shocking. I really hope that changes for the better soon, otherwise vacations are going to be quite difficult.
Well, we had quite the trip to Pittsburgh! We arrived home last night after a very long 5 days away from home. Although we loved seeing family and friends, Gavin has apparently reached an age where he no longer travels well.
Gavin did reasonably well on the drive to Pittsburgh. At least not any worse than previous long car trips. He slept okay the first night, not as well as he had been sleeping at home, but not so bad it wasn't manageable. Unfortunately, it was all down hill from there. He was a bit more whiney Christmas Eve, but seemed to do ok after he napped a little more. We decided that since he had taken a second nap and woken up a bit later than normal, we would attempt staying a little later at the annual Christmas Eve party. It started at 6, so we were hoping he would do well enough to not have to leave at 7 to get him into bed by his normal 7:30 bedtime.
The party was wonderful and it was great to see everyone. Unfortunately, Gavin didn't seem to feel that way. He had a meltdown as soon as we stepped in the door and I don't think he ever really recovered because he basically ignored everyone all night (even all the kids) and was either off doing his own thing (which he would abandon if anyone came over to him) or was demanding to be carried around by Scott or myself. At that point, we probably should have just left at 7, but we tried to stick it out a bit longer. We ate (Gavin refused to eat anything... ugh) and tried to make the best of it but had to abandon the party a little earlier than we wanted. By the time we got out the door and made it back to Scott's dad's house, it was clear that it was going to be a long night. I got him into bed as quickly as I could (which took a bit longer than I would have liked because we had to replace the batteries in his glow worm, what great timing for those to die!) and hoped for the best. I was exhausted by that point, so I got ready for bed, put Muppet Christmas Carol on and fell asleep pretty early. That didn't seem to matter since Gavin woke up fairly early and refused to go back to sleep, so I brought him to bed with me, which there was not enough room for. He tossed and turned a lot and was generally unhappy the rest of the night. He then decided that getting up early would be awesome. Not so much.
It was a rough morning because he was crabby from not sleeping. I did what I could to distract him but it was pretty useless. He was just going to be miserable until naptime no matter what I did. He took a good nap and was ok the rest of the afternoon. We headed over to Lori's for a few hours to have Christmas dinner and spend some time together. Gavin did much better than the previous night. He was actually interested in Tyler and Jake and playing. He had a lot of fun running around with them. It was nice to see someone closer to the "real" Gavin. We headed home to get Gavin in bed at 7:30 and hoped that maybe tonight would be better since he had been more "normal" that afternoon. Nope, another rough night. Just as bad, if not worse. A lot of tossing and turning and general crappy sleep. Awesome.
He woke up early again Monday (ugh!) and was crabby all morning. At this point, Scott and I are trying to decide what to do. We had wanted and planned to visit some people Monday and Tuesday because we were going to head home Wednesday, but Gavin was so miserable, it was making it really hard on us. He wasn't sleeping and he wasn't eating so he was constantly whining (something very out of character for Gavin, unless he is teething). After Gavin took a good nap, he was ok so we decided to try and stick it out and go to visit some family.
We had a lot of fun and Gavin enjoyed their dog and running around somewhere new for a little bit. After that, both Gavin and I were done so we headed home for the evening. Scott went out a little later to visit a friend because Gavin and I were not up for going as well.
Even though Gavin slept worse (I thought that wouldn't be possible), I tried to remind myself we only had one more day and we really wanted to visit some more people since we only see most of them once (sometimes twice if we are lucky) a year. Gavin's mood improved a bit after his nap so we packed up and headed out. He did a little better with the other kids this time and was more willing to run around and play, so that was nice.
Bed time was the same, terrible sleep and Wednesday morning was the same crabby kid, mixed in with all the last minute packing that I couldn't do the night before. Awesome.
Our drive back was pretty miserable. Gavin hardly slept, was whining almost the whole way home and nothing made him happy. He wanted nothing to do with movies/shows, snacks, drinks, toys, music, nothing! It was a really long drive and we were all miserable and generally unhappy by the time we got home.
Gavin's mood quickly improved when we got home. He was seemingly very happy to be home and running around. This was the happiest I had seen him in almost a week! I have no idea if it was because he was happy to be out of the car or happy to be home, but it was such a nice change from the whining of the last few days!
I was hopeful that maybe just being home in his bed, in his room and with all the normal things we do, he would sleep better. Not so much. Although he did seem to sleep a little better, he was still up a lot more than normal and woke up for the day earlier than normal because of that. The only thing that makes that a bit more manageable is that he wasn't crabby all day! Wahoo! I can deal with and work on his night sleeping if he is at least his normal happy self during the day!
Although Gavin's sleeping and mood were awful, it was great to see everyone and I am happy we made the trip. Gavin has never traveled well because he hates long car rides but traveling has never impacted his mood so that was a bit shocking. I really hope that changes for the better soon, otherwise vacations are going to be quite difficult.
A few cute pictures from our trip (we didn't take as many as I would have liked because of trying to manage Gavin's mood, but we snagged a few good ones). Enjoy!
Christmas Eve - Playing the piano!
The bear chair!
His new favorite toy... Fisher Price Little People Tractor!
Christmas Day - Checking out his new keys!
Checking out a game controller...
Hmmm...
Giant moving and talking truck!
Getting a ride on Jake's new scooter!